A twelve step program I am fond of touts the mantra “attraction rather than promotion.” When I was younger and held prisoner by addiction to alcohol and other drugs, well-intentioned clergy, family, friends, doctors and law enforcement would try to promote the idea of either abstinence or self-control to me as I moved brazenly from one jackpot to another. Usually I heard that I needed to “slow down” or get some sort of handle on things. Once I was told by a psychiatrist that I needed to find a good woman to help calm me down and live an orderly life (in all fairness, when I think about the stuff I told him, I have to remember that you get garbage out if you put garbage in). The magic of a recovery program happened for me when I heard somebody tell their story and I was able to relate to it. The terminal uniqueness I suffered from had finally succumbed to a dent in its armor -in the reality that others may well understand exactly where I was coming...
12 Step Sobriety from a Christian perspective...